Between husband and wife relationship, talking with each other is normal and is not one of those things that we learn anywhere. After all when they were mere friends they talked. During courtship talking was the order of the day. They understood each other very well to decide to live their lives together.
Well, somebody tuned off somewhere along the line because something happened which they should have talked about but didn’t.
That’s why it is difficult to talk now…I mean really talk to or with each other? It is either “he doesn’t talk to me” or “he doesn’t listen to me”.
Talking is unhindered expression of the mind by the spoken word. Of course talking is a waste if it has no caring audience and contributor in the person of our spouse. And it should bond husband and wife relationship or solve problems.
The more couples talk, the more bonded they get…and the less unresolved issues lingering around their lives. So, we never outgrow talking. In fact reduced talk, careless talk or no talk is a sign of tension and dwindling affection in a relationship.
Actually, talking is the most talked about among other ways of expressing our thoughts and desires. There are also action, inaction, gestures or body languages that are as important and convey the feelings and thoughts of our mate. Over time couples settle for the way and manner to relate with one another best.
However, talking is indispensable in the home.
Except the couple (or one of them) is speech challenged.
This is what the talk is all about. It is the stimulus of all the happy things you hear about husband and wife relationship and expect in your own marriage.