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May 30, 2019

Insist On God's Will For Your Family.

“Then said Mary unto the angel, How shall this be, seeing I know not a man?

And the angel answered and said unto her, The Holy Ghost shall come upon thee, and the power of the Highest shall overshadow thee: therefore also that holy thing which shall be born of thee shall be called the Son of God.

And, behold, thy cousin Elisabeth, she hath also conceived a son in her old age: and this is the sixth month with her, who was called barren.

For with God nothing shall be impossible.

And Mary said, Behold the handmaid of the Lord; be it unto me according to thy word. And the angel departed from her." (Luk 1:34-38)

  


For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end. But you shall call on me, and you shall pray to me, and I will answer you.(Jer 29:11)

  


We received testimonies from 22 countries: Canada, USA, Nigeria, Ghana, Zambia, South Africa, Zimbabwe, Kenya, Great Britain (UK), Australia, Malaysia, Philippines, Germany, Albania, Israel, India, Netherlands, Papua New Guinea, Trinidad and Tobago, France, Sweden and Jamaica.


Hi Precious Daughter of God,

I welcome you to another edition of your inspiring Newsletter.!

  

Most often I get comments where women think that the behavior (misbehavior, really) of their husbands and the troubles of separation or divorce in their marriage could be the will of God.

  

Although I have dealt with this line of thinking in several individual mails, but the opinion does not seem to go away. If this misleading thought is not wiped off, it could weaken the zeal to pray and save your marriage.

  

There is no support of this thought from the scriptures whatsoever. Even if you know respected Christians who think it, it still does NOT make it the Will of God for you. It is not written in the Bible!

  

I want you to reason along with me on this. Let us leave out all emotions and pain, and enter the mind of God.

  

Do we know the person of the God of Heaven, our Father?

…You are a God ready to pardon, gracious and merciful, slow to anger, and of great kindness… (Neh 9:17b).

… turn unto the LORD your God: for he is gracious and merciful, slow to anger, and of great kindness (Joel 2:13).

  

Now, would you still accept that it is the will of this God for you to go through torture and pain in your marriage?

  

I believe God connected you to your husband in marriage. Could it be true that somewhere in your marriage journey (as it is now), He changed His mind and willed him away from you and gave him to another woman? Is that so?

  

Do you think that God’s will for you is to be scandalized, humiliated, abandoned and divorced? Why would the compassionate and kind God decree such fate on you, His daughter? Do you think a human father would wish such life for his own daughter?

  

That is what you insinuate when you say your marriage problems could be the plan and intention of God for you. I tell you, it sounds like blasphemy! The source of your problems is clear. The devil is a liar!

  

Yes, it is the devil.

  

But many of you know that already. Perhaps some are not fully convinced what is going on!

  

So we have often wondered:

1. Why God didn’t stop the devil.

2. Why we have not yet been able to dismiss him from your marriage through the prayers.

  

The first question. The devil does not come without invitation of some sort. Some door was opened, somehow, for him to come into your marriage. This is the fact. You or your husband, (or both of you) let him in. Remember, even God can not come to you except you invite Him.

  

Now, God made provisions for us to correct our errors. Even if the devil was given a seat or a whole room in your home, you have since changed your mind. He has to leave.

  

On to the second question. The power to exit the devil and his schemes will not come by just a couple of prayers. I tell you this, the devil didn’t gain this much weight by the first invitation you gave him. You obviously allowed him in and fed him (note: ignoring him is also feeding him) for some time. Then he robbed you.

  

I have explained this much to show that you will need to send him out by streams of relentless prayer commands.

  

He will have to leave.

  

As he leaves, he will leave behind ALL he has stolen from you: peace, joy, love, husband…

  

He has no choice.

  

God is with you in all this. He has given you counsel and direction through His people He connected you with. I humbly believe I am one of such people sent from Him to you. If you checked how you came to meet me and this Ministry, you would know it had to be God.

  

And you know something? I know you will succeed. The day I sent you the first foundation prayers in that long email was the day God asked me to go ahead and pray with you. This is personal and it was an approval. God is faithful. Every one truly praying with me received that initial seven-day foundation prayers.

  

That is why I know you would succeed. Your victory is already decided according to the Word of God (you know the Word of God and His Will are the same). But there’s a process of restoration. It is spiritual. It is persistent right prayer.

  

I believe God, with everything inside me, that if we are faithful and conduct ourselves in a godly and responsible manner, victory will come and you will have your family intact.

  

Then you will share your own testimony.

  

Behold! The Acts Of God.

Could you go back to the scripture in Luke 1: 34-38 (reproduced at the very top pf this Newsletter) I want to show you something.

  

When the prophetic word was hard to believe for Mary, the angel told her a testimony. Testimonies are proofs that those hard situations can change. They do change ultimately. The devil cannot stop the change God has approved.

  

So, testimonies are reproduce-able. They are products of God delivered through prayers and faith.

  

The scripture says, “…the testimony of Jesus is the spirit of prophecy. (Rev 19:10 last part). This means that one testimony can be repeated several times in the lives of believers. The testimony is prophecy. If God can do it for one, He can do it for another.

  

Testimonies are super faith boosters for everyone! And no testimony is small. None of us can make any testimony happen. God makes them.

  

If a testimony seem small to you, it is because a greater part is in the making. Usually, every great thing starts small, but we do not look down on testimonies, big or small

“Though your beginning was small, yet your latter end should greatly increase. (Job 8:7)

  

When you see one side of your desires showing up, the other part is about to be fulfilled.

“Seek you out of the book of the LORD, and read: no one of these shall fail, none shall lack fulfilment: for my mouth has commanded, and His spirit has gathered them (Isaiah 34:16).

  

Let me tell you this. I look forward to your TESTIMONIES. If there were no testimonies, I would probably have given up long time. Testimonies validate the authority and work of God. When God gives you a task, He goes with you in signs and wonders.

“They remained there for long speaking boldly in the Lord, who gave testimony to the word of his grace, and granted signs and wonders to be done by their hands. (Acts 14:3)

  

Testimonies thrill me to Heavens. It often makes me shed tears of joy. You should understand if you know a woman who had been through torture and torment in marriage by the husband, or a gang-up of wicked souls… or evil spirits and demons.

  

And everyone thought it was hopeless and senseless to hang on to that marriage. But she stood her ground on the Word of God which can NEVER fail. The storm came on her furiously but she was focused.

  

Then, one day!

  

Things turned. Situation changed. Like a dream… a joke?

  

God is glorified. That is my goal. To be part of your joy and to bring glory to God.

Today, we shall publish some of the testimonies we received since the last BBI 7 Prayer Season. We have 218 ready-to-be-published testimonies. But what we can accommodate just a few in this Newsletter.

  

We received testimonies from 23 countries: Canada, USA, Nigeria, Ghana, Zambia, South Africa, Zimbabwe, Kenya, Great Britain (UK), Australia, Malaysia, Philippines, Germany, Albania, Israel, India, Netherlands, Papua New Guinea, Trinidad and Tobago, France, Sweden and Jamaica.

  

Before we get to them, I want to explain why it takes us some time to publish these testimonies. Though we prefer detailed testimonies, we do not publish all the details. Many of the details show the names of the testifiers, the husbands' and other family members. It is my avowed obligation to protect your information and save you from any embarrassment.

  

So, we replace the husband’s name with ‘my husband’ and remove other names that may reveal the true identity. If we ever allow any name, it is not the real name. If any of our readers want to get to know more of the testimony, they should contact me to request communication with the testifier. If I clear with her, I may ask the testifier to reach out to the inquirer.

  


The Testimonies.


Osita, God is really with you. When my husband went to stay with the other woman, his mother and his other family supported them. I don’t know what I did but they hated me and encouraged my husband to leave me.

Two days to the end of the BBI 7, my sister inlaw who hated me too came to tell me that my husband was sick and in hospital. I didn’t want to go because I don’t want them to disgrace me. The last time I took my son to their house, they almost beat me up.

Anyways I went to the hospital. The miracle happened there. My husband was happy to see me. I don’t know what happened to him but he was really sick and very thin. He said I should not leave his side. I thought he was going to die. But God saved his life for me. They said the other woman left him when he slumped and was taken to the hospital.

Now he is discharged from hospital and recovering at our home. He has shown me all his documents and investments within one week. He even said that his family members misled him to leave me.

God answered prayer 2 of the BBI for me. I memorized that prayer and was praying it 7 times every day. God is really faithful.

  

I started the BBI7. The woman that was with my husband is gone. God heard my prayers.

Plans are set in motion for me join him in Hawaii as soon as he finds us a place to live. Should I still pray the exact wording concerning Jackie who is no longer in his life.

  

Osita, I will remain indebted to you. You know my pains, how my husband betrayed me and went off with my best friend who was also married. While I prayed, they moved to another state and he asked me for divorce.

But my great God changed it and saved me from divorce. The husband of friend suddenly came back from army posting and reconciled with my friend.

I called my husband but he was not willing to return. But as we prayed, he came by to see our daughter. That same day we were intimate. He has not spent any night outside again. We are intimate almost every night.

Please pray for us that no other woman will seduce him again because I suffered too much pain.


Osita, I have seen a changed man. I am so grateful; my husband is a changed man and yes like you said deliverance comes in phases.

I’ve been tempted before this last BBI, and God is transforming me, but I know and I’ve seen God’s Power. This week makes it a year since I did the first BBI, and I have seen wonderful miracles because I did not give up. And even when it now looks like it is all done, I know there’s a last thing God wants to do, and it’s completely move him from that job.

I will pray and see God’s miracles. There is a possibility that they may move him to Florida where we lived in the past, and God knows my heart. I am actually trusting God that whatever move He makes is for our good, but now I understand that God is the one that does the work, and if I interfere I hinder what I pray.

So I am so grateful for your ministry. I sent the seed through PayPal so I am ready to join you in BBI7.

  

Hello Osita,

I just want to thank you for the prayers.i did took part on the BBI.

Change has now begin to show in my family. My husband has started to take us with him to church during the week. During weekends he spends time with us at home and we go to church together on Sundays. He is now spending time with us as compared to the previous months.

Our times of intimacy have now become pleasant times; his love making is now different and enjoyable.

The strange woman is still there, though they are not spending time together as they used to. I believe God will remove her permanently from our lives.

  

Hi Hello,

Thank you for the work you are doing in praying for us!!! I have had a MASSIVE breakthrough today. When I tell you what it is, it won't sound like much, but I feel in my heart that this is such a big shift in relations between my man and me.

There was a certain kind of meditation that the Lord asked me to do starting a couple days ago. I did it, not knowing what to expect, just trusting in God. This evening as I was sitting in class, I got an odd notification on my phone. My husband had unblocked me on Facebook--it was just as though he had never blocked me to begin with, because he did not have to send another friend request; it just popped up in my notifications.

He had blocked me last May right before proposing to the strange woman. I don't dare snoop through his social media, I don't want to find out anything. I will trust in God and in God alone, and will continue to pray.

Thanks be to God for what He is doing here! And thank you for all of your help. I had begun to get weary. Actually yesterday I don't think I even did the prayers; normally I do every day. This testimony came right in time to renew my faith.

  

Dear Osita.

Thank you so much for helping in prayers for my husband. I have a huuuuuuuge testimony. My marriage has had a complete turnaround. I have never met this new man that God has sent my way. My husband is now loving, caring and tender. There is so much joy in my home and my family. I have stopped working full time and I have time and energy to be a mother and wife because of the whole transformation that Jesus has brought to me.

Thank you, Osita. You are my gift from God. Thank you so much. I just can’t stop praising our wonderful Father. I tell you now it’s so good that sometimes I wonder how long it will take for me to wake up from this dream. The other day I had to take hold of my thoughts when I was thinking if this change means he will die soon...that’s how awesome it is.

Our God is a great God.

Thank you Osita p>   


Thanks for your mail, my husband came back home uninformed, after 2nights he woke up to ask for forgiveness, I asked him what is his offence he said he knows that I am not happy with him that I should forgive and pray for him. Please what should I do?

  


Hi Osita,

I give glory and honour to the Lord. He has been merciful and heard my cry. With God all things are possible!

Following my previous update and your advice, i did embark on the Esther prayers ending the fast Friday 8th March.

To God be the glory! For my husband called me today to say he considering reconciliation.

My husband moved out to his apartment and is living there alone presently as the woman lives in Kenya. He is yet to disclose the current situation with the strange woman as well as the state of their engagement/proposal he made in January.

He said we both must write down our concerns and then discuss how we resolve them next week.

The only setback right now is the concern whereby he mentioned that he does not want to move back in just yet, but wants to stay separately until we smoothen out all concerns. I know that I still need to fight the devil in that regard and keep pressing for permanent transformation and his return back home.

I thank God the day he led me to your website. I was lost and hopeless, falling prey to the powers of darknesss and deceit.

  

Thank you for your email and encouragement. All is well. My husband seems to have changed, we are spending time together, he picks and drops me from work. I am not sure if the relationship with the other woman has ended.

I am now having problems doubting. I suddenly have this thought of whether I made the right decision coming back to him. Its difficult to forgive him and the pain is still sharp. Each time I read, hear or watch something related to infidelity I feel so much pain and want to cry always. I have this hate towards him and have the feeling that he and the other woman experience the same pain that I have been through and am going through.

  

Hi Ostia,

I want to let you know, my husband is back and wanted to work on our problems! All glory goes to our amazing God! I want to thank you very much for your prayers and I want to continue you pray for our permitted restoration! Thank you so much for your counties support and prayers!

  


Osita,

It is with such thankfulness that I can say that silence is broken: my husband phoned me during the week and spoke to me on the phone for an hour. There was no sign of malice or cold treatment, in fact he was very considerate and kind.

He said that God spoke to him in a dream concerning his responsibility towards the children and made an appointment to come and fetch them on Sunday for an outing without the strange woman!

I am so very pleased and can’t wait to see how God will unfold our story...ALL PRAISE TO GOD.

  

Good day Osita,

Hope you're well with the whole team.

I thank and bless the day I met you on the internet as my life has changed dramatically to the best and glory of our Lord Jesus Christ.

My marriage is doing very good and my husband has changed a lot; he is a responsible and more loving than before. The strange girl is no more; he confessed and asked for forgiveness and promised to be a better husband.

  

Hi Osita,

I just thought to write to share some information concerning the post BBI 7 events in my marriage. I know the purpose of the program is for marriage restoration and salvation of our husbands. This is my second time in the program. I wish to say that some interesting things happen when you begin to pray in this manner. The first time I joined the program, I experienced a temporary breakthrough, This time I am another breakthrough.

  


Hello Osita,

I have been praying the prayer points frequently everyday.

I can say my husband is more caring now. He calls me more on the phone and he sounds sweet too. He has been opening up more and sharing his thoughts with me.

I've never experienced God's power in this way. I thank you so much for guiding me to know God more and see His power at work in me.

I believe that God will completely heal the marriage and brings back the beauty and happiness in it.

  

Dear Osita,

I am very heartened. My husband is changing. I can tell. He has been home all week and the times he was out, he was not acting shady.

We have been intimate four times this week and he keeps telling me how great it is, and especially how amazing and romantic his birthday weekend (last weekend) was.

Our birthdays are 3 weeks apart. So, my birthday is coming up, and he wants to take me away for the weekend. He asked his sister if our daughter could stay at their house for the weekend so we can have our alone time. I suggested just one night but he wants two nights!

Most heartening, I found a piece of paper in his office with a 12- month plan written out--all about his work and career goals. I am delighted he is concentrating in this direction! This is the clean and positive energy I have been praying for!

In addition to all this, I was told my job (which is a contract position) could very possibly be converted to a full-time position. I really like my new job and would like nothing more than to get full time...so this made everyone VERY happy. AND, our daughter's teacher texted me and said she is getting the Student of the Month award. We found out all this good stuff on Monday 4/29, which is my husband 's actual birthday!

Anyway, I am sill praying FERVENTLY and am comforted to know you are praying with me. Thank you God for all your blessings. May this continue!

  

Dear Osita,

I have been wanting to update you for days. My husband is being so wonderful. He goes out at night but is home at a fairly normal hour, answers my texts promptly. He goes to bed with me every night and wants intimacy several times a week. He has been affectionate and telling me he loves me so much. He continues to spend time with our daughter and family. My birthday was amazing, we had so much fun.

  

Hello osita I hope you are well! I have some good news to share with you. My husband is giving notice in his rental apartment and is moving back home. Praise God!! He moved out in October 2015 He is coming home to live..I am so thankful. He is doing much better with addictions and is hardly drinking or doing anything else. He has been more loving and respectful to me ,it has taking nearly 4 years but God is faithful!

  

Finally...

Since we have this word validated by so many testifiers, let us put away every weakness and habits that hinders us, but let us persevere and do what is expected of us, Heb 12:2  Taking our example from Jesus the be-all and end-all of our faith; who because of the joy ahead of him, endured pain and shame, and and now is enjoying sweet relationship and authority with God (Hebrews 12:1-2 paraphrased by me).

  

You shall succeed.

Osita.


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