Husband Cheated: Stop A Repeat
Some women intuitively become overwhelmed that their husband cheated on them in the past. It’s not
so much of infidelity, or lack of it, presently but some issues may have cropped
up to cast doubts on his past loyalty.
Why Is It Important To Know If Your Husband
peek backwards would help in going forward:
If he cheated in the past, under whatever
circumstance, he is likely to cheat again in the future. It is not
circumstances that make husbands cheat; it is character failure.
type of cheating (one night stand or real affair) and with whom? This will give
a hint as to the type of people he mingled with and the risk of STD or
the affair (or behavior) stopped? How did it end? While the end of the affair
is an indication that he is clean for now, there is nothing to prove that the
cheating partner has given up on him yet. Or that your husband has wiped her
from his life and memory. This could be a momentary break due to distance
barrier, or to cut-off intense suspicion. You have to be sure the affair is
shut down permanently.
you did not suspect that your husband cheated while it blossomed, it
could be that you are too detached from him, too insensitive, too trusting or
whatever in that mode. It may also be that your husband was too clever and covered
up very well. Whichever, it’s a wake-up call to raise your act.
How To Find Out The Secrets Of The
Some factors that could help you to establish your husband's infidelity of the past.
first is the famous gut-feeling. You may not prove what you think, but there is
this overwhelming impression that he did something
with somebody else in the past and is hiding it.
some gossip filtered through, you checked and found a huge semblance of
authentic facts in support.
got bold and confronted him on your suspicions and he confessed too easily.
That confirmed that he had betrayed you all this while, but now other suspicions you overlooked in the past are no longer petty.
evidence from the past came up. You stumbled upon certain mails in the
mail box, inside an old journal etc that showed your husband cheated in
of extra marital consequences. He infected you with STD or the mistress showed
up with pregnancy.
What You Should Do If When You Find Out
you should be angry and disappointed, to put it mildly, but you need to move
ahead with your life.
affair is really over and there are
no negative consequences trailing, you may put everything that happened behind
you and forge ahead.
Now you know
that your husband cheated, ensure he makes a complete, honest and
verifiable confession. In addition, he should show authentic remorse and submit
to STD test.