My Husband Doesn't Want Divorce But Lives With The Other Woman
(Charlotte, North Carolina, USA)
My husband of 21 years cheated and says he did this because he was mad with me for taking too long to get over past infidelities. He also claimed that he doesn't know why he cheated in the past but remembered that due to his anger with me he was sure our marriage was over.
He told his mistress we were done and talked her into removing her birth control so they could have a child. They now have a daughter that is a year old and he moved in with them the day the child was born.
We both don't want because we still love each other. I think he is confused, he says at some point in the future we will get back together but doesn't want to leave the other woman yet.
I want my marriage to stand but I need God's divine help to soften his heart and renew his mind. Any assistance you may give me will be greatly appreciated.