Do you know you could win back your cheating husband, no matter how hopelessly adulterous, and heal your marriage by praying God’s word from your room? One evening soon, you and your (former!) cheating husband could be seated in the living room having lively, hearty chat. Most likely, you could be in your bedroom, on the bed, catching up!
Or, you both, out somewhere sharing a meal and a drink, looking into each others eyes…
The way it used to be.
Many wives have suddenly prayed into this turnaround of their unfaithful husbands, and marriages, when all hope seemed lost on him.
One woman from the Philippines wrote me, “I think he’s pretending, you know, acting it out. He seemed too far gone with the other woman. He said he was happy with her and never gonna come back to me and the kids. Now this. I doubt his remorse and return but he’s been with us now for 17 days. Something is wrong! Please help me out, I can’t handle another heart break!”
To which I asked her. “What did you expect while you prayed, and asked me to pray with you, to win back your cheating husband?” Obviously her faith was not in place but she prayed on all the same. And I prayed earnestly for them too.
God answers only prayers He is committed to because He “cannot deny Himself” (2Timothy 2:13). That’s why we need to commit God through prayers that emerge from His word. The Bible said of God’s guarantee of His word, “…You have magnified Your word above all Your Name” (Psalms 138:2).
When you pray to win back your cheating husband, you want him changed, isn’t it? And in praying, you hand him over to God, who is able to change and convert any soul – no matter how deep in depravity.
Now, this is the heart of the matter. Most wives who pray for the change of their adulterous husbands suppose that their husbands are the only issue needing a shift. But this is wrong. You, the wife, have contributed to the state of the marriage, by doing something, or not doing something. Whatever, your part in this state of things is usually revealed to you in targeted prayers.
When you start to pray God’s ordained prayer to change your cheating husband, the prayers change you first! If the prayers are not changing something in you, it may not work on anyone else. But, if as an outcome of the prayers, there’s an adjustment in style, habit, conduct or commitment, you are on the right groove. This is an acid test to measure the right prayer that would definitely win back your cheating husband.
From what I have shared so far, you should definitely know if your prayers would deliver or not. And you would know this within the first few days of praying the targeted prayers. You will be the judge of it as no other person would really know what’s going on inside you.
And you know what? As you adjust to those personal changes, the real things start to happen! The prayers extend the hands of God to work, and ultimately change, your husband.
However, to win back your cheating husband usually means for him to stop cheating and start loving you, faithfully. His comeback often throws up certain emotions and suspicions, which if not curbed, could rubbish all the efforts of prayer.
What to do? Understand that this is more like a new marriage…at least for now. There is what to say and do to integrate the husband back and heal his wife and marriage without gaps.
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